Last week I talked about respecting your aging parents’ independence, while keeping them safe and engaged as they end their lives here with you. It is often a difficult but extremely rewarding task to care well for those you love during this time but incredibly important!
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How do you respect your aging parents’ independence, but keep them safe and engaged as they near the end their lives? Can you? It is a difficult but very rewarding task to care well for those you love during this part of their life journey and sometimes mirrors how they raised you.
Falls are a major home safety risk, and one that makes it difficult for our loved ones to stay independent in their homes. As we age, our bones break more easily and heal more slowly. Our vision may weaken; we may even lose some of our peripheral vision and depth perception. The good news is that we can do a few simple things to help our loved ones stay in their homes, assisting them in their desire to stay independent and healthy. Some safety issues and solutions our Care Managers want to share include:
A piece from one of our team mates:
September 13-19th is National Assisted Living Week. The theme for this year is “Nourishing Life: Mind, Body, Spirit.” In twelve years of working in senior care, I have seen many situations where Assisted Living communities have truly nourished life for seniors.
I want to start by saying I'm writing this not only as an Aging Life Care Professional™, but also as a daughter of someone that has in home care. Once help is needed in the home the situation is usually pretty stressful. Your loved one may be against the thought of "hired help", or even in denial of the fact that they need it. Hiring a caregiver for your loved one can be scary. The questions go on and on: Can you trust them? Do they have enough experience? Should I use a company or hire them privately?
In this article, we'll examine a number of changes you can make to the main living area of your home that will help reduce the risk of falling. Injuries sustained from falls continue to impact the overall health and quality of life for many seniors. By taking a proactive approach to making these simple changes, you can help to prevent the increased risk of a fall.
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The following article was published in the Knoxville New Sentinel on April 18th, 2015. Written by Sharon Pryse, this article offers a lot of great information related to providing support to aging parents. A special thank you to Sharon Pryse and the Trust Company for sharing this article with us at Choices in Senior Care.
As we age, we have a greater appreciation for all that our parents have done for us.
As they age, they usually appreciate all we now need to do for them.
Caring for aging parents is something most of us will have to do at some point. This can get complicated even for those whose parents live nearby, but it is much more challenging when parents and children are scattered across the country.
What can you do to ensure a smooth transition into your parents’ elder years? Plan.
How can you and your parents plan, especially with so much uncertainty?
One thing you can count on, thanks to modern medicine, is that we are living longer. The quality of this longevity isn’t guaranteed, and may mean that some will need more assistance as they age. So, start planning sooner rather than later.
A few things to consider:
- Who will handle your parents’ financial affairs if they are unable to do so?
- Is that person prepared and capable to handle financial affairs?
- Who do your parents want to make medical decisions if they can’t?
Your parents may have done a great job saving and investing, but studies show cognitive abilities diminish with age.
So, what is your parents’ plan B?
I recommend they consider consulting a geriatric care manager while they are still competent and healthy, and that they have a financial plan lined up in advance.
Geriatric care managers are experts on elder care who serve as patient advocates who ensure individuals get the treatment they want — or don’t want — either at their home or at a facility of their choice. They act as a liaison with family members and can often minimize family friction. A GCM is a fairly new concept but one those in their 70s might want to consider. More information can be found at caremanager.org.
As for a financial adviser, encourage your parents to look for an individual they are comfortable with, one with a good reputation and, if possible, one who accepts fiduciary responsibility.
Certified financial planners can be identified through cfp.net. Finding a person that handles tax and bill payment may also be an advantage.
Enlisting one child to handle all the financial matters can lead to disagreements and resentment among family members, which makes hiring an unbiased third party a prudent decision.
Assuring our parents have their plans in order will benefit everyone when the time is most critical.
Doing so can provide peace of mind and take a burden off your parents and yourself, allowing you both to live as worry-free in your later years as possible.
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